drowning in hypocrisy

I'm frustrated. Frustrated because I feel that I am not listened to, that my words are ignored, that regardless of how I feel, I'm still required to maintain a positive position in my household.

my warning to the person who needs to improve their attitude or leave has been ignored. I don't know if it's on purpose or not, but the small amount of interaction between us has been uncomfortable. Mostly because we haven't talked about the letter I sent or his response. It is extremely important that we fix this situation before something awful has to happen.

what bothered me is the person in question still 'asks' for us to do things for him. Its small things that bother me, like, asking for food when he had every opportunity to feed himself throughout the day but has neglected to.

remember how I made cookies the other day? Well, I make a batch without nuts because he has an allergy to nuts. A small batch of cookies, just for him, even after the problems we had the other day. I also made sugar cookies (WITH STAR SHAPED SPRINKLES!!!). Now, because I knew that he'd eat all of them if left to his own devices (speaking for experience here). I told him no, twice. The second time, to be fair, was after I offered it to guests. But, kind of out of spite, I told him no, because he really didn't deserve them. I don't care if it makes me sound selfish, he had done nothing to 'earn' the fruits of my labor. A similar thing happened when we game home from the grocery store and I had some gummy worms and he asked for some, and honestly, I didn't want to give him any for similar reasons.

I'm not wrong, right?

I'm starting to notice his more childish nature in how he behaves. I've told him and many others that he is perpetually study in the summer after high school and before he started college. Free or ignorant of the responsibilities of the real world. However, this behavior is unacceptable for him now if he wants to succeed and be respected.

I offered to make our guests dinner, intentionally not asking him if he wanted any, once again because he could have fed himself at any point during the day. He still reminded me of his hunger. Recently, he became a vegetarian, which is wonderful. However, it means I need to be even more considerate when I prepare food. I have no problem doing it, since I've done it all along since he moved in. So, I make some kind of pasta. . . thing.

now, we're all playing rock band and there is a little complaint from him not getting to sing all the songs. I've always encouraged him and my editor to try different instruments for it, with no avail.

maybe I shouldn't be so hard on him, but I'm starting to lose all my patience with everything.

sorry for the late post. . . I've been. . . Busy.